If you asked a Nigerian today if they would support or advice someone they know to get an abortion, their answer would likely be no. Proceed to ask them why and the answer will be one (or both) of these two. I've labelled them "the religious reason" and "the safety reason." The Religious reason Here, the Nigerian opposes abortion from a religious point of view. They make reference to a god who frowns on abortion; who hates it, in fact. They believe this god hates abortions because it ends an innocent life – more on that later. And they may even quote some verses in the Bible or Quran to support their point, even though neither holy book speaks explicitly on abortion. The Safety reason In Nigeria, abortions are known for being dangerous. I'm sure every Nigerian has heard stories of a woman losing her life or experiencing serious health complications as a result of an abortion. These stories are everywhere, sometimes they're shown on TV. And so most Nig...
Did you know, that in some parts of the world women are killed by their families because they were raped or suspected to be sexually active? This is called an honour killing. Allow me to enlighten you. An honour killing occurs when a person (typically a woman) is murdered by their family because of some dishonour – real or perceived – that that individual has brought upon the family. An honour killing is carried out to restore the honour of the family. In many cases, this involves killing women who are suspected to have lost their virginities, either to consensual sexual intercourse, or rape. In many of these scenarios, a woman is concluded to have lost her virginity after undergoing a virginity test. A virginity test is a process to determine if a woman is a virgin. It typically involves inserting fingers or objects into the vagina to check for an 'intact hymen'. But what is even an 'intact hymen'? Now, this is where the virginity police run into big problems. There...